PinnedAjay J. StephensinThe T CaveThere are Different Types of Gender-Affirming TransitionWhat comes to mind when you think of gender-affirming transition? Most people associate gender-affirming transition with surgery or…Mar 7Mar 7
PinnedAjay J. StephensinThe T CavePost T Tales: Playing with the GuysIn my previous article, Pre T Tales: Playing with the Boys, I talked about my times as a girl desperately trying to play with the boys. I…Oct 22, 2023Oct 22, 2023
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CavePre T Tales: Playing with the BoysWhen I was younger I always took any chance I could to play with the boys. Since I was into more boy stuff I felt I should play with them…May 15, 2023May 15, 2023
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CavePre T Tales: Creepy Guys in the WildI was “gifted” with a mature body when I underwent female puberty. My assets were proportional to my body, which filled out my clothes…Apr 13, 20232Apr 13, 20232
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CaveIf I Had Only One Wish, I Would Wish I Were CisIt’s been three years since I came out as trans and started medically transitioning. During these past few years, I’ve joined any trans…Mar 28, 20222Mar 28, 20222
Ajay J. StephensA Decade Without a MotherAt 3 am on March 25, 2012, I was shaken vigorously awake by my aunt. She told me in a panicked tone that we had to go to the hospital. I…Mar 25, 2022Mar 25, 2022
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CaveGender Non-conforming Behavior Doesn’t (Always) Mean TransgenderGrowing up, I realized that there are many types of queer expression. There’s a spectrum of queer expressions that is beautiful and…Mar 5, 2022Mar 5, 2022
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CaveTrans Man Struggles #1 BathroomsAs a trans man, it’s very euphoric to be able to use the men’s bathroom. However…Jan 10, 2022Jan 10, 2022
