PinnedAjay J. StephensinThe T CaveThere are Different Types of Gender-Affirming TransitionWhat comes to mind when you think of gender-affirming transition? Most people associate gender-affirming transition with surgery or…·3 min read·Mar 7, 2024----
PinnedAjay J. StephensinThe T CavePost T Tales: Playing with the GuysIn my previous article, Pre T Tales: Playing with the Boys, I talked about my times as a girl desperately trying to play with the boys. I…·3 min read·Oct 22, 2023----
PinnedAjay J. StephensinThe T CavePre T Tales: Playing with the BoysWhen I was younger I always took any chance I could to play with the boys. Since I was into more boy stuff I felt I should play with them…·4 min read·May 15, 2023----
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CavePre T Tales: Creepy Guys in the WildI was “gifted” with a mature body when I underwent female puberty. My assets were proportional to my body, which filled out my clothes…·4 min read·Apr 13, 2023--2--2
Ajay J. StephensThe Origin of StephensPhoto by Tim Mossholder on Unsplash·3 min read·Aug 29, 2022----
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CaveIf I Had Only One Wish, I Would Wish I Were CisIt’s been three years since I came out as trans and started medically transitioning. During these past few years, I’ve joined any trans…2 min read·Mar 28, 2022--2--2
Ajay J. StephensA Decade Without a MotherAt 3 am on March 25, 2012, I was shaken vigorously awake by my aunt. She told me in a panicked tone that we had to go to the hospital. I…4 min read·Mar 25, 2022----
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CaveGender Non-conforming Behavior Doesn’t (Always) Mean TransgenderGrowing up, I realized that there are many types of queer expression. There’s a spectrum of queer expressions that is beautiful and…4 min read·Mar 5, 2022----
Ajay J. StephensinThe T CaveTrans Man Struggles #1 BathroomsAs a trans man, it’s very euphoric to be able to use the men’s bathroom. However…3 min read·Jan 10, 2022----
Ajay J. StephensAh, Father’s Day…Just Another Day to MeI only remember it’s Father’s Day when the stores display the “Super Dad” mugs.4 min read·Jun 9, 2021----